Blog Post #10 – Freedom in love

Loving is not owning. You should not dictate your person’s actions and decisions. You should just let him/her be as she has needs to mature and grow as an individual apart from you. But what if he/she finds another along the way? Most of the time, this is the question asked out of fear or maybe insecurity. To admire someone because of a specific trait is normal. To appreciate beauty is good but to do something about it is a totally different thing. If he/she does, then, he/she is simply just not the “one” for you no matter how perfect or destined you might feel for him/her in the beginning.