Sabi sa mga nabasa ko, isa sa mga risk na matapang na sinusuong ng mga lalaki sa panliligaw ay ang risk of rejection. Wala kasing kasiguraduhan kung magiging maganda ang kalalabasan ng lahat ng efforts nila. Pwedeng matamis na “oo”, o kaya naman ang pambansang “friendzone” or ghosted ang peg. Para sa mga babae naman, hindi ko alam kung ako lang ba ang ganito o may iba rin na nakakaranas ng parehas na isipin. Let me share my current dilemma.
Last December 2017, there is this guy na nakwento ko from my last blog na may gusto na makilala pa ako and hopefully, matuloy sa pagiging someone special for him. I gave him a chance kasi I honestly feel different when I am with him. We’ve been out for a couple of dates already aside from the fact na we see each other almost everyday and after getting to know him more, it is as if I have literally met my match. I am very amazed at how we are similar yet different. I am awed in the fact na we have the same values and point of view sa mga bagay-bagay. I am inspired at how determined he is with his plans and at how much he values being “in-the-moment” rather than worrying about the future which is more like me. He can literally calm my storms and I feel very safe and happy whenever I am with him. I feel like I am falling for him way too fast and I am even thinking of giving him my “yes” pero my overthinking mind is butting in again.
Kailan nga ba ako dapat sumagot?
Dapat bang magtanong muna siya if I can be his girlfriend? Or can I just give him an answer?
Notes and Sweet Nothings 